Christian Wedding Wishes

destined to one day become a pastor said that I can not be a bridesmaid because I'm Jewish. can you believe that !!!!!!! If I say something or just shut up and wish them good luck?

Tell him that I worked in a Methodist church that hired a pastor who was Jewish. The congregation loved the man! Obviously, being a pastor was what paid the bills for him, even if he was Jewish.

It's about friendship, not religion, as long as you can go hand in hand with the religious aspect of the ceremony. There may be things said at the ceremony that you do not agree with. Of course, it is not your place to say a word.

Your friend really needs to be aware of how her fianced is handling this situation. He does not want you two to be friends after marriage because of religious differences. Is she ready to enforce his life from now? It will be worse when it gets to be a pastor.

Lol, and this cult of your friend who does not belong to fear of Jewish girls?

You're there to honor your friend and her marriage. I do not think that religion would play that big of a deal. I go to my synagogue and friends for the things she came to my church for things. We celebrate the lives of others as friends. And remind him that Jesus was a Jew.

Wow, we've failed. I came to wish them good luck and find yourself new friends, because after their marriage, I doubt you'll see many of his more. I'm sorry to hear that. It is really cruel.

When it comes to religion, it is useless in the fight against war, because there will be no winner. You need to stay out of it and let your friend's husband will soon. wants of man are just as important as the bride wants a wedding.

This is ridiculous and biased. What an idiot!

if she does not know what he said that let him know you mean something like respect his wishes so you do not intervene, even if you want to be her maid of honor

PS recalls her fiance that Jesus was a Jew and Christians believe in Jesus (JEW)

Silly Silly man irritant, it must be

If it were me I would know that my being Jewish have to do with my standing as a bridesmaid for my best friend? Maybe I'm slow here, but I see no evil, what I see is that he is biased. Why your girlfriend does not take a stand and put it back? I do not think I even made you aware of this because, like your friend, I would not want to hurt you. He and I would have had to til we reached a kind of compromise, but it would not be allowed to participate in my friend because of his own problems. Even then, I do not know if I want to be a part of the day after. How do you feel knowing that not be you doing?

What God gives us the major, if not for this kind of situation?

On a more serious note, no, I do not think you should just grin and bear it silently.

wish your friend much luck ... she will need it.

he does not know whereof he speaks.

something. *** It is a trial, not someone who should become a pastor, he is obtaining his doctorate, or simply become another front uncultivated Guy inn a chair. If the later, he does not know what he's talking anyway. I love how people who preach goodness, forgiveness and acceptance are the most ruthless and decisive round. So not all Christians.

I got married in a Catholic church. I am not Catholic, but my husband is. Our priest said as long as the best man or maid of honor was Catholic, he was not a problem. My sister was maid of honor and she is not Catholic, but the best man, my brother.