Humorous Anniversary Cards

My girlfriend a year and a half and I have been arguing nonstop. I'll give her side of the first floor. (And I'll be right!) His main complaint with me is that I am not so affectionate and I treat her as a friend. She says I'm selfish and complain too much. I see no reason why it says I am not so affectionate, but I'll make this one a bit. Regarding his teating as a friend, I must disagree. (For obvious reasons) The selfish thing baffles me, but I can see why she says that I complain a lot. I'll try to explain my situation further.
I'm in my mid-twenties and she is twenty-three years, if that matters. About eight months ago, his parents gave him the chance to leave work and go to college full time. In addition, they give 1K worth of pocket money per month. Keep in mind that it does not pay the bills, his father pays him a credit card for her. I know because she told me. I have no problem with any of these things and I fully support his decision to stop work to finish school. We have a plan to move in together and eventually have a degree and better work will surely not? The school we are seeing is for people who work full time. It is not online but you meet with your teacher once a month to hand in work. This individual study. Currently, I work full time and part-time in school. We hang out 4-5 times per week, and yes, most of the time I'm very tired. I deal with daily stress in my work with the bills (including credit cards which I am obsessed with fruit, so when we move in together, we have no additional debt), the school and life in general. This could be a reason why I seem detached ... I am completely exhausted, but I make the effort. I'll take it whenever I have money, I'll see the movies she wants to see, to watch shows they want to watch and do the little things like getting her a snack or make tea. I do all these things because I want to, not because I feel like I have.
As will complain, yes I complain about work. I am currently looking for new, better paid jobs. (So that I can help us when we live together), I worked in a law office for nearly seven years and I am a paralegal. I'm frustrated and I'm at my girlfriend for comfort ... is complaining? I try to express in a humorous way but I guess it does not work. I imagine if she had a job and things of that nature, she complained as much if not more. Also, I find that good news (like an interview at a new job, etc.) is rapidly becoming not worry when I tell him. (Eg "you do not leave work before getting another," etc.) There is simply no support or excitement, just nagging worrysome. I'm studying for the state tests to the use of various well. (LOTS of studying in my life) So, every second, I make sure to be "reminded" to study or make phone calls to my teachers. I am not trying to sound angry, but I did not make this measurement before coming along? I understand she wants to be involved, but his accomplice (sometimes several times a day, if not more) "reminders" borderline harassment and just carry me to the bone. So, in addition to my everyday normal stress I have these constant nags every little thing and it really drains me. REALLY.
Basically, everything that I did not even mind, she seems to miss it. I make the effort to improve on his complaints about me and it never seems to be enough. Tuesday was our anniversary of sixteen months (not a big problem .. odd number), I suppose we could have dinner together or went to the movies, not a big deal. But instead, she decided not to dawdle. When she asked me if I'd be mad I said, are you crazy? "She said yes. Needless to say I was in time and we decided not to dawdle.