Wedding Party Thank You Cards

Hello, I had a small wedding with family and friends of the family for me and my husband. It was not a typical game music, etc. just a little party with food and talk, which was still expensive for my single mother and aunt to throw for us. Many of the family I probably have not seen in years and some I do not know very well where others that I knew much better. I have to write wedding cards anymore and try to understand how the words.
That's what I thought:
Name
Thank you for participating and I name you the wedding party.Thank also for the gift of money. I'm sure it will be useful in starting our lives. Thank you for your presence in sharing this very special time in our lives. Together.
Love
Our names ....

I do not know what to put on the donation money? Should we talk about how we use it, if it will be useful, or what? What could I write or is it enough? I'm only 30 this time to write but want to sound special and I Mr. and Mrs. cute address labels as well but want to sound really special. Anyone have advice on how those words or anything that I should save or advice? It would be greatly appreciated if I can finally write to my party in July.

Also the card I'm writing to my aunt, who came to my party died a few weeks perhaps after our party, should I tell my sympathy to her husband or something or just let it out? What is peculiar about it? It was sad, she said she was looking to make sure it was good for me (which is great) :-(

Thank you everyone for your advice, comments, suggestions, etc.

Here are some suggested wording:

Dear Martha and Fred

Todd and I wanted to thank you for attending our wedding. It meant so much to us that you're there to help us celebrate our new life together.

We also wish to thank you for the generous wedding gift you have given us. We are saving to buy a new car, [or any other item that you are saving for] and your donation will help us reach our goal.

Love
Jen & Todd

For your uncle and aunt died:

Dear Uncle Fred,

I was very honored to have you and Aunt Beth to our wedding and help us celebrate our new life together. I will cherish the moments spent together. I miss my dear Aunt Beth, I am sure you will too.

Thank you for the beautiful gift. I'll think of you both every time I look.

Love
Jen

1.) Do not put "gift" of money, say gift when you point gave them the money it seems they did not care to look a gift.
2.) I would say it will be very useful in helping us to work on the house, go on a honeymoon, starting our life together ect

My feeling is this, if someone gave me money I tel them my plans, for example: Thanks for sharing our special day with us, it meant so much to have you there. Thank you for your generous donation that will be useful for the new table I'm getting at. Can not wait to have you over once we have solved the show.

For the lady who died the husband wants to grateful and honored that you have your special day, it will remain forever in your heart, and how it will be sincerely missed. Hope this helps. .

You have your English a little off. Here is what I propose. Clearly, they are composed of names!

Mary dear aunt and uncle Ken,

Tom and I want to thank you for attending our wedding. It was really nice to see you. Thank you for the gift of money. It will help us as we begin our life together. We appreciate your presence to share this special moment with us.
Love
Karen

It's OK if the bill you just.